Get Your Man Back With This Life-Changing Knowledge
So how do you keep a great man you love?
It can be hard to figure out why your boyfriend broke up with you or why your husband is pulling away from you. Even worse is when you’re still together but feel him slipping away like Leo sinking into the ocean in the dramatic titanic scene.
You have all these questions running through your head like “is he still interested in me?” or “why is he acting so different lately?” If you constantly generate these thoughts, you might want to reconsider all that you think you know about keeping a man. Most of what women have been taught about keeping a great man (and what causes us to lose him) is incorrect.
#1 Fulfilling one of your man's secret desires
When it comes to dating, most women don't know about a "secret desire" that every good man harbors deep within himself: the desire to find his dreamgirl, his one, his life partner.
How do you become a dreamgirl? Putting yourself first is the key to achieving this goal.
Focusing on a male partner's wants and needs is what we have been taught to do to "win" him over. Although it goes against every fiber of our being as women, the key to reigniting a man's passion and commitment is to stop obsessing over why HE acts the way he does and start fully experiencing the joys that life has to offer in the most powerful ways possible... thats what a dreamgirl does!
Try it, even if you think it's irrational, or scary, to grant your man's "secret desire" by turning your focus away from the sinking ship relationship and to yourself. You can use it to become the self-respecting, powerfully feminine woman your man is desperate to have back.
Once your man realizes that you value your own worth, you'll make him crazy with desire because you'll become a prize that requires a fight to obtain. If you do this, he'll never let you out of his sight.
#2 Knowing how to break old habits
When your man begins to distance himself from you, it's very; likely that you're part of the problem. I know this is painful to admit, but changing your own behavior patterns is the fastest way to rekindle your relationship with your man.
Break the habits that are preventing him from seeing your strength and self-worth, and watch him begin to return to you! "Stepping back" means giving your man the space to miss you rather than constantly checking in and hoping he still feels the same way. Learning how to live your life without him is an essential part of this process.
Stop thinking about him all day long... You no longer have to plan your day around his schedule. You no longer have to worry about what you say or don't say. Stop these bad habits like overfunctioning. "Ovefunctioning" to make him happy or allowing him to do things that make you unhappy will no longer be an option for you.
If you want your man to start moving towards you again, you must first accept that you need some self-reflection and self-improvement.
#3 Sharing your emotions the right way
Don’t let the fear and insecurities about how he will react when you express yourself lead you to lose control of or hide your emotions. The shocking truth is that men are drawn to our feminine emotional natures in a powerful and helpless way.
Masculine energy tends to shy away from the "drama" we put ourselves through when expressing our emotions. To avoid making your man feel blamed or cornered, don't be afraid to express your emotions, but do so in a non-judgmental and non-critical manner. Instead, develop the skills necessary to effectively share and accept them.
Do this frequently, and your man will become aware of the fact that he craves your company, your touch, and your affection at a subconscious level. As a result, he will be compelled to open his heart and draw you closer in intimacy. You can practice this with anyone, even if there is no male companionship.
#4 Taking back control of your life
Take a trip down memory lane to when you first met and began dating your man. Were you always calling him and obsessing over him? Were you living your life following what he was doing? Were you sacrificing your self-worth and strength to appease him?
There is no doubt about it. When you first met him, you were probably focused on strengthening and enhancing your own self-worth, which made you a lot more attractive to him. I want you to start working on yourself and becoming more like the woman who first drew him to you.
Now that you have the basics covered on how you can get your man back, why not stick around to find out what more you can do? Keep in mind that if you've been used to running, worrying, and expressing your feelings in all the wrong ways, the process of becoming the woman your man can't live without may not be as easy as you think. However, as the saying goes, practice makes perfect. So, take the first step toward reuniting with your man!
Hey love, let’s stay together…
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