5 Ways to Make Him Chase You
He’s starting to get lazy. So how do you kick him back into chase mode?
Sometimes when the Limerence Stage starts to die down or the Honeymoon Period is over, he starts to slack on chasing you. Did he stop planning dates? Maybe he isn’t communicating with you as much anymore? If you want to turn on his animalistic, predator chase instinct, read on to find on what to do.
This article is our mini deep dive on what's inside of my book How to Make Him Chase You. You'll be learning six major keys about loving yourself, loving him, and growing an indestructible team.
#1: Falling Deeply & Unconditionally In Love With Yourself
How to handle Joan of Arc aka your inner masculine protector voice …. that sabotages your best efforts at finding and keeping true love because she wants to “keep you safe from heartbreak”
Acknowledge the masculine protector part of yourself, Joan, by giving her room to be heard. My loving her concerns and accepting that she is a part of you, you will stop rejecting parts of yourself
#2: Expressing Your Feminine Energy to Cultivate Love & Joy
Remember that you are the PRIZE, not a participation or conselation trophy, the #1 spot on the podium, which means that men are competition with each other to chase, pursue, and court you – whether you’re dating or been married for years
Being in touch if your feelings and emotions is the most direct way to be in touch with your inner feminine power and also happens to be the most profound path to a man’s heart
Replacing over-functioning, masculine habits for self-care feminine habits that cultivate more romance, love, and excitement
#3: Choreographing the Dance of Feminine & Masculine Energy
Masculine and feminine energy differ, and their polarity intensifies passionate attraction
Shape-shift to flow between your feminine and masculine energies so you can excel in both love AND work
#4: Receiving Love & Support from Masculine Energy
Find ways to respect and appreciate a masculine man that will inspire him to do more and be more for you
Reframe situations to let go of your anger towards your partner, which prevents him from boomeranging back to you
Open the flow valves of communication even when he is shutting down during disagreements
#5: Letting Go of Control to Achieve Partnership
Stop subtle and dangerous ways you chase him, control him, and turn him off without even knowing it
Stop working so hard to get affection, attention, and love from men
Set boundaries, desires, and expectations without starting a fight, which will even inspire him to get closer to you
Hey love, let’s stay together…
You don’t have to go through difficulty alone. You are never alone. If you need more help beyond what the free blog can provide for you, I’m here for you. My researched blogs will always be free because I want to help as many women as possible Raise the Bar, which will make the world a better, safer, and happier place for all of us.
If you’re still struggling, I’d love to invite you to get the book by clicking here. The book is great for “Do-It-Youself-ers” and Reading & Writing Learners. There are incredible, scientifically backed writing exercises in there that can transform your life if you practice them.
Finally, if you want to supercharge your relationship at lightening speed, I have two options for you: join the waitlist for the video course and or request a place to work one-on-one with me in person or online. The video course will be great for Auditory & Visual Learners or people who just want more detail on exact relationship methodologies and how to apply them in every day life. The one-on-one fun work we do together is absolutely wild and life-changing. It’s literally a hold-your-hand method for Kinesthetic Learner and people who don’t want to waste a single second more of turning their wheels and try to figure it out themselves.
Whatever you choose, know in your heart that I am here to support you on this journey. I know exactly what it feels like to be at your ropes end, totally confused. So whether I can support you through free blog posts or paid in-depth help, know that I consider it an honor and privilege to serve you.
