The Things We Do to “Get” a Man Actually Push Him Away

In order to get the juicy, romantic, and blow-your-socks off kind of love that you desire, you need to learn HOW men fall in love with us in the first place. And spoiler alert, it’s not what you think.

This is why we’ve been reading cosmo articles of the latest tips and tricks to get the guy since our teenage years and we’re still running into trouble! What gives right? If all of those tips and tricks articles worked, why do we keep ending up distressed?

It can be not only confusing, but also absolutely world-shattering when he pulls away or says things like “I’m just not feeling it anymore,” “I don’t think you’re the one,” “I’m not attracted to you anymore,” “I need some space,” or “I’m not sure about this.” And you’re left thinking, “wait, I did and said all of the right things- why is this happening?”

Everything you think you know about men is wrong, and it’s not your fault.

The reason for this distress and confusion is because the things that society and magazines tell women will make men fall in love with you, in reality push him away!!!

When women start to feel a man drifting away, we usually roll up our sleeves and get to work on making things better. We start cooking more nice meals, making his life easier by doing small favors or buying new lingerie that might entice him.

Mistakenly, we think that if we were a little nicer, a little more beautiful, a little thinner, a little more agreeable, a little sweeter, THEN he will finally fall deeply in love with us forever.

We try to be the ‘go-with-the-flow-girl.’ We patriciate in his favorite activities like golfing or watching the game at the bar. When we see him stressed, we focus on helping him, making things easier for him, and making him happy.

Then maybe just maybe, he’ll finally see how lucky he is to have an incredible woman he’ll make a lifelong commitment to and stay in love with.

But here’s the big kicker, you don’t have to prove anything.

In fact, you have to totally forget about doing, convincing, and pulling a man towards you at all in order for him to want to chase you. These are all masculine energy habits that stop him from connecting with our feminine energy.

There are easy-to-make, small changes that actually work and make him chase you down like a hungry tiger that’s been roaming the savanna for a month looking for a meal. It’s more about shifting into the feminine part of your energy to create polarity to attract a masculine man and spark passion.

Hey love, let’s stay together…

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