Tap into your Feminine Energy to Draw Him Closer
What does it mean to exude a lot of feminine energy? What does it actually entail to be feminine? Here's what you need to know about being more feminine and connecting with your feminine power.
The term "feminine energy" refers to a particular set of attributes that are thought to be the polar opposite of those connected with masculine energy. When you're pursuing a goal, moving forward, getting things done, and pushing yourself, your masculine side emerges. When you go with the flow of life, accept your creative energy, dance, play, and are aware of your emotions, you express your feminine side.
Let me be clear, the human experience is both feminine and masculine energy. To neglect one entirely, is to neglect your humanity; however, only one of these energies replenishes you and the other drains you. You are capable of both, but your body neuro-chemicaly has a preference for one that rejuvenates you.
Many of us have paid a high price for our modern liberties—the loss of devoted, profoundly passionate relationships, which only comes from polarity. In relationships, we've all but forgotten how to embody our own feminine energy and feminine power because we’ve bought into the lie that there is only power in masculine energy.
Why does it feel like I’m out of touch with my feminine energy?
Modern feminism has brought women countless rights, opportunities, and freedoms that were denied from us. We can now pursue the best educational degrees, start the ideal businesses, and design our lives as we want. So why aren’t we happier than ever with the best possible partners?
In a capitalistic, patriarchal world that frequently focuses on growth and pushing forward, masculine energy tends to be "respected" more in our culture than feminine energy. As a result, women feel out of balance and out of place both personally and culturally. When we spend excessive time on being a man or being in our masculine energy, we spend most of our time working and very little time relaxing, traveling, and making impromptu connections with other people. Additionally, overvaluing masculinity makes us reliant on valuing ourselves from what we produce, so we inevitably end up spending less time nurturing our creative and expressive selves.
Women & men will forever remain different.
There's no point in denying that we women are different from men, even though each gender should have an equal opportunity to pursue happiness. We are different and equal. We are two sides of the same coin. We are the yin and the yang.
The distinctive characteristics of men and women—masculine energy and feminine energy—are essential to cultivating passion. Attraction comes from the polarity dance of masculine and feminine energy.
While both sexes have both energies, one is always more dominant within a person. This means that like a magnet, you will attract a person of opposite dominant energy. So if you are stuck in your masculine, you will attract a feminine man, and vice-versa.
How to get into your feminine energy
Being feminine doesn’t just mean living your life to the fullest potential without compromise. It also means:
Believing in oneself
Regardless of any man, knowing what makes you happy
Following your passion and living a life you love
Feeling internally powerful, autonomous, capable, and strong
Feeling as if you are capable of handling anything that comes to you in life because you are the Source
Allowing your entire heart and range of emotions to be witnessed and cherished
Being in your masculine energy is the complete opposite of this.
Masculine energy is a pure burst of drive to complete tasks while you're trying to do anything. The masculine part of ourselves is an excellent source of drive to achieve our goals in the outside world.
When you’re in a relationship, masculine energy is a cover-up. It masks the softer, sensuous, more alluring feminine energy. It hides the essence of feminine energy, which is connected to your most intense emotions. (And why does our subconscious want to to stay disconnected from our deep emotions? Because we women are terrified that the masculine is going to hurt us!)
When we are in our masculine energy, we feel the need to DO something to make something happen, which causes us to DISCONNECT from ourselves, cover up our feminine energy entirely, and suppress our feelings. The relationship breaks down the moment we stop connecting with ourselves. Men see masculine energy as a protective shield that's cold and hard and works as your emotional defense.
Sure you’re “safe",” but you’re also not connected, you’re not living.
In addition, if you’ve been doing the following: suppressing your feelings, holding back tears, thinking that you’re just making things up in your heard while denying your intuition, stepping up while he’s slacking off so your relationship can go on, acting like you don’t care, playing mind games, or simply not trusting yourself; it’s time to consider that perhaps you’ve been over-functioning within your masculine energy.
It will take practice, but once you stay feminine energy forward in your relationship, you'll find it comes naturally to you as a woman and wonder why you weren't aware of it sooner!
And this is just the beginning of how your feminine energy might draw a wonderful masculine man to you.
Hey love, let’s stay together…
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