Transform Him from Zero to Hero

Do you want him to be more romantic?

If so, it's time to appeal to his hero instinct to enhance his self-esteem and inspire him to be your knight in shining armor. There are certain things you can do and say to inspire his sense of heroism.

You can discover wonderful ways to awaken a man's hero instinct here. So let's get going!

The phrase "hero instinct" may be unfamiliar to many of you, but it is crucial in relationship psychology. Every guy aspires to be a hero, just as we idealize the heroes we watch on television and in movies.

He aspires to live a heroic life. For the people he loves, he aspires to hero status. In a similar manner, he desires hero treatment and requires validation from his partner that he truly is a hero.

The most basic biological yearning for a man to feel needed, wanted and valued is described by the hero instinct. A man will never admit that to you! But the desire to be a hero is ingrained in every man. 

How to awaken the hero instinct in your man

The best part is, you only need to do tiny things to rekindle your man's romantic feelings for you! The following techniques awaken his inner knight in shining armor!

Show your appreciation

In order to inspire your man's sense of heroism, it is crucial to compliment him on a variety of topics. Men feel love for a lady who makes him feel valued.

Every man wants his woman to appreciate him. Gratitude is shown through loving words, conversations of gratitude, or even simply a simple, loving exchange of words.

Show your appreciation for the man who brings beauty into your life. Try to be realistic while doing this, because you shouldn't deceive anyone.

For instance, don't praise him for anything you believe he is doing improperly in order to elevate him to the status of a hero. Praise him for actions that are positive and advance your connection.

Ask for help without being needy

Asking guys for help can help to awaken their hero instinct. If a man is dating you, you might simply make him feel like a hero. There are many tasks that are biologically just easier for them to do than you. This doesn’t mean you can’t open a jar of jam by yourself, but why not let the guy who has 40% more grip strength than you do it… and bonus, he feels like a hero helping you!

Balance is the key. Neither of you should handle everything on your own. It is about working as a team. Each member of the team has strengths that are adept to different tasks. 

Praise him

If a man has no faith in himself, he is nothing. Everyone is looking for a man who can hold his head up while walking down the street and speak in public with direct eye contact. Making your man feel great about himself by supporting him is one easy way to achieve this.

You can also take it a notch higher and stroke his ego in front of his peers. Of course, it's great to compliment him privately, but it's next level to boast about your man in front of his friends or coworkers! It gives him a huge confidence boost and conveys the message that you genuinely adore him and want the entire room to know it.

Support his goals

Your support inspires him to be his best self. Tell him you have no doubt he can do whatever he sets his mind to when he shares a goal or talks about his passion project. Ask questions and show curiosity. He should feel that you have his back and would never against him while he strives to reach his goals.

Encourage him to express himself

A man must feel safe with you to show his vulnerability. Our society primes men to suppress their emotions, which is unhuman and unhealthy. Deep down, your man desires a companion that nurtures and respects all aspects of himself, including his emotions. Sharing your feelings allows him to feel safe and loved enough to show his own.

For example, if he is grieving the loss of a family member, remind him that it is normal for him to cry. Assure him that you care for him and will never judge him when expressing his emotions. You become a safe place for him to explore his feelings.

Respect him

Consider whether you respect your man. You will never be able to activate his hero instinct if you do not respect him. Name-calling, blaming, or insulting is never respectful.

Without mutual love and respect, no relationship can thrive. Respecting and supporting each other in a relationship, on the other hand, gives people the courage to face any obstacle. 

Give him your total attention

While he doesn’t want to be your whole world, he wants to feel important in your life. Put your phone away and look him in the eyes when you're talking with him. Make it a point to pay close attention to what he says instead of trying to think of something to say next. 

Rinse and repeat these seven steps and you’ll awaken a man's hero instinct in no time.

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