7 Magical “Chase Me” Texts He Can’t Resist
Are you hoping that the guy you like will chase you?
Ready to spark a little magic and have him chasing you down? The right text can send just the perfect hint of intrigue, showing him that you’re confident, playful, and a woman of high value. Each of these texts has a touch of mystery, playfulness, or light challenge—designed to get him thinking about you.
Let’s dive into these seven “chase me” texts that will have him hanging onto every word and thinking about you long after he’s put down his phone.
#1 It’s official, we can’t be friends any longer!
This pleasant and flirtatious text can help you capture his attention and have him thinking about what you really mean. He will be so curious and want to text you back. Make sure that your response is playful just like the exclamation mark suggested. “I saw you eat hot dogs with mustand instead of ketchup on your story. How dare you sir…”
#2 It seems we both really like each other. What are you going to do about it?
One of the most important things to remember about how to make him chase you through text is that men admire confidence. This message is great because it is bold and allows your confidence to shine through, BUT he is challenged to chase and take action.
#3 It's a good thing we are coworkers/ live far apart/are just good friends because you and I would be trouble.
If we all matched with people who were perfect for us, there wouldn’t be so much fuss over love - and how boring would that be! All great love stories show the couple overcoming a great obstacle.
There's a reason nothing can happen between the two of you (even if it's a completely fictitious one you made up for the sake of this message), which builds desire because it's a way of telling someone they can't do something: "I can't?! Then by all means I'll have to."
This message breeds mystery and FOMO (fear of missing out). Now all you need to do is sit back and let his imagination run wild.
#4 Just in case he asks, “What are you up to right now?”
Respond with, “Just getting ready to take a shower before heading out with some friends. What are you up to?”
(Quick disclaimer: Do not use with someone who has only recently begun texting you since he may interpret this as an invitation to become sexually involved too early.)
The typical response to this question (which is, I must say, a pretty uninspired text subject) is another piece of similarly dull text.
If you send this to him, he'll have a picture in his brain of what you're like without being turned on by anything too sexual. What you say to him will make him think about you in a way that will make him want to be with you even more than before.
When you fire the question back at him, be sure to put the emphasis on the word "YOU" to add some levity to the message.
#5 You know what’s better than texts? An enchanting dinner.
You have to be easily captured if you want him to give chase. The message sent here is concise and to the point. You're basically communicating to him that if he wants to take things further with you, he’ll need to make the first move and ask you out to dinner… not a walk, not coffee…. dinner!
#6 Well, wouldn’t you like to know? 😏 I have the best secrets.
The emoji is crucial here. We need to make sure it comes across as flirty and not annoyed. Who doesn’t like being in on a good secret!
#7 Wish you were here right now.
Send this when you are having a good time with your friends or are simply doing something you think he would love, such as hiking in the outdoors, taking in a stunning view, or enjoying a concert.
Statements have great power. The best thing about this text is that you aren't even inviting the person to join you. You've just demonstrated that you are considering him in a lighthearted situation (which is also an inbuilt compliment).
I love how unclear this message is at first. Since you haven't actually mentioned where you are or what you are doing, there is already a strong sense of fascination and wonder. You can always share a photo of what you are viewing to explain in a follow-up message a minute or two later.
You don't have to be in the photo; just tell him where you are. He might have initiated this by asking where you are by the time you send it, but it doesn't matter if he doesn't.
So there you have it. 7 magical texts to send to make him chase you. You’ll connect with him emotionally and learn more about him. And unquestionably continue to occupy his thoughts day and night.
Hey love, let’s stay together…
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