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Hey, I’m AMANDA.
NEUROSCIENCE AUTHOR // LOVE MANIFESTOR // ENERGY-WITCH // RECOVERING TYPE-A // SCORPIO PROJECTOR // HUMANIST PHILOSOPHER
Howdy, I’m Amanda. International amateur polo player and inventor entrepreneur by daylight, love manifestor and neuroscience author by moonlight.
After a decade of decoding human behavior—consulting Fortune-500 brands by day and mentoring high-achieving humans by night—I proved a radical truth: the brain is re-programmable and so is your reality.
Today my methodologies blend lab-grade neuroscience, Jungian depth work, and feminine mysticism. The result? Humans who are irresistibly magnetic, ethically wealthy, and deeply in love—with life and with themselves.
The universe is abundant. You can have it all, right now.
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5 SIGNS YOU’RE READY TO RAISE THE BAR
We can’t get the help we need until we’ve reached our bottom. Every person has a different bottom and different timeline to get there. Some people choose to keep doing the same things and expecting different results. Here’s how to know if you’re really ready to step into your feminine power and have the romantic relationship you’ve always desired.
because you're hot, and smart. . .
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Stop taking advice from “coaches” and “experts” who only give their opinions that draw on their personal or anecdotal experience or worse cherry-pick lines from science to bolster farfetched conclusions. You deserve more than someone who went to a six week hypnotherapy course and is now advising you on life decisions from their surface level knowledge. You are in your discernment era. You deserve deep knowledge, deep horizontal and vertical understanding rooted in the greatest philosophical and humanist thinkers of history. Many of them will advise you from a trauma kaleidoscope lens. Everything that I create, from writing exercises to quantum jumping meditations to scripts to method practices, IS ALL grounded in science.
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MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS
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THE FIELD: QUEST FOR THE SECRET FORCE OF THE UNIVERSE
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INVISIBLE WOMEN: DATA BIAS IN A WORLD DESIGNED BY MEN
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LOVE YOURSELF LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT
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How to Play Polo When You Travel: A Visiting Player’s Guide
Message on Instagram, text the manager, bring your own helmet, and ask who's matching you with a horse.
When Is Polo Season? A Region-by-Region US Calendar
Polo season in the US follows the weather. Here's the calendar I learned by chasing it.
“You Can’t Be Athletic Too”: What Polo Taught Me About Labels
A well-meaning uncle told me I could be pretty and smart, but not athletic too. Memo Gracida disagreed.
The Dip: The Night I Almost Quit My Polo Tour
Partway up the East Coast, I fainted, fell down a flight of stairs, and seriously considered going home.
I Tried to Visit Every Polo Club in America. Here’s What I Learned.
In 2021 I set out to visit every polo club in America. The biggest lesson: a club is its people.
How I Started Playing Polo Without Growing Up on Horses
I won polo lessons in a silent auction because nobody else bid on them. Then I quit my corporate job and moved to Buenos Aires.
How an Oilfield CEO Doubled His LinkedIn Following: Jason Ellison
From 1,974 to 4,232 followers and 270,955 impressions in thirteen months. How a ghostwritten LinkedIn built an oilfield CEO’s audience.
From Page Four to Page One: The Hondo Resources SEO Case Study
Average Google position 31 to 8.9 in under a year. How an oilfield water company became the answer Permian operators find.
How GMI Group Built LinkedIn From Zero: An Industrial Case Study
GMI Group’s first LinkedIn post went live in January 2025. What Unrth built, why it worked, and what the numbers showed.
Color Psychology in Branding: What the Research Actually Says
Color shapes how people read a brand before they read a word. What the research supports, what it doesn’t, and how to choose your colors.
What Is Neuromarketing? A Neuroscience Grad’s Plain-English Guide
What neuromarketing measures, the four studies that built the field, and how to use it in your business without a brain scanner.
How to Name a Brand: Research First, Name Last
Name your brand last, not first. The research-first naming process behind Unrth, PoloFlow, OilMoney.io, Ditë Society, and Sabbatical.
Intuition Is Data: The Cognitive Science of Gut Feelings
Intuition is real, measurable, and only as good as the experience behind it. When to trust your gut, and how to tell it from anxiety.
What Is a Sabbatical, Really? (And Who Gets to Take One)
A sabbatical is a stop, not a pause. What it means, how long it lasts, and who actually gets to take one.
What to Wear to a Polo Match (Player & Spectator)
What to wear to a polo match, whether you’re in the stands or in the saddle, and why your stilettos should stay home.
Polo Rules Explained in Plain English
Polo in plain English: four players, seven-minute chukkers, the line of the ball, and why the umpire just blew the whistle.
The Neuroscience of Manifestation: What’s Actually Happening
The universe may not be taking orders. Your attention system absolutely is.
The Neuroscience of Falling in Love
Your brain on new love looks like your brain on a jackpot. Choose accordingly.
How to Ask Your Boss for a Sabbatical (Scripts Included)
The ask is a negotiation, and negotiations are won in the preparation. Here are the exact words.
How to Take a Sabbatical: A Woman’s Complete Guide
Not a long vacation. A structural pause, and the most underrated career and life move a woman can make.