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Howdy, I’m Amanda. International amateur polo player and inventor entrepreneur by daylight, love manifestor and neuroscience author by moonlight.
After a decade of decoding human behavior—consulting Fortune-500 brands by day and mentoring high-achieving humans by night—I proved a radical truth: the brain is re-programmable and so is your reality.
Today my methodologies blend lab-grade neuroscience, Jungian depth work, and feminine mysticism. The result? Humans who are irresistibly magnetic, ethically wealthy, and deeply in love—with life and with themselves.
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Palm City Polo Club: Joey Casey’s Club, From a Visiting Player
Joey Casey's club near Wellington has some of the best fields I saw in America, and he fixed my legs in the hitting cage.
Tinicum Park Polo Club: Saturday Polo in a Bucks County Park
Polo in a public park, and a club that draws 600 to 1,800 people on a Saturday.
Poway Polo Club: $30 Chukkers in San Diego
The least expensive polo of my tour, a really great horse, and a mention in the club newsletter.
New Orleans Polo Club: Four Big Fields in Folsom, Louisiana
Beautiful clubhouses, four big fields for about 28 members, and a hat and jersey to take home.
Meadowview Farm Polo Club: Gorgeous Grass and Polo All Winter
My notes from that day say "best field ever." Plus an indoor arena that keeps Michigan polo going all winter.
St. Croix Polo Club: My $80 Polo Lesson in Wisconsin
Ninety minutes of stick and ball, two horses, and one cue on repeat: relax.
Newport Polo: Where to Take Friends Who’ve Never Seen Polo
A few thousand people, a jumbotron, and fans cheering for players by name.
Roseland Polo at King Family Vineyards: Free Sunday Polo in Virginia
The biggest polo crowd I've ever seen, on a vineyard hillside, for free.
Seneca Polo Club: The Arena Without a Speck of Dust
Wayne and Kate Briere's club near D.C., and an arena they water twice.
Spokane Polo Club: Polo Since 1913 and a Great Girl Gang
Polo since 1913, two full-size fields, and about 22 members who play, hang out, and go boating together.
Will Rogers Polo Club: My Birthday on LA’s Last Public Polo Field
A low-goal game on my birthday, a French apéro, and floor mallets on a field Hollywood legends played on.
Jackson Hole Polo Club: Two Months of Summer Polo in Wyoming
Texas trailers, barbecues by the river, and ten shared pros that keep summer polo affordable.
Big Horn Polo Club: Wyoming Polo Since the 1890s
One of the most peaceful polo fields I've ever seen, and why horses are cheaper to keep there.
La Herradura Polo Club: Lunch With Memo Gracida in the Santa Ynez Valley
A $500 chukker, calm horses, and a lunch where a 16-time U.S. Open champion told me I was an athlete.
Polo in Wyoming, the Pacific Northwest, and Hawaii
Summer polo in the mountains, small clubs with big welcomes, and island polo in Hawaii.
Polo in the Midwest: Chicago, Michigan, Wisconsin, and Ohio
Midwest polo is summer polo, with a few indoor arenas that never stop.
Polo in the Southeast: Aiken, Georgia, the Carolinas, Kentucky, and Louisiana
Aiken is the hub. Here's what I found around it, from Atlanta to New Orleans.
Polo in Virginia and Maryland: Clubs Near Washington, DC
Free polo at a winery, Veuve in the barn, and an arena without a speck of dust.
Polo in New York, Pennsylvania, and New England
The Northeast is summer polo country. Here's where I played and watched in 2021.
Polo in California: Clubs I Played and Visited
From the Gracida family's club in the Santa Ynez Valley to $30 chukkers in San Diego.